To sit beside
you in your
most human
moment.

I began my work as a Sex & Relationship Therapist in Denver over twelve years ago. Over time, I kept seeing the same intersection emerge — sex, life, pleasure, and death. Death showed up in all its forms: not just physical, but erotic, emotional, and spiritual. I was holding it all, and I needed to understand how it was connected.

Two and a half years ago, I completed the transformative training to become a Death Doula with Alua Arthur and Going with Grace. Since then, I've immersed myself in the world of death — learning by doing, by practicing, by sitting with it. Because knowing about death cognitively is one thing. Witnessing a life end — and all that comes before, with, and after — is another knowing entirely.

I've volunteered as a vigil sitter in the final days, hours, and minutes of a person's life. To hold their hand. To encourage them through their laboring out. To feel the sacred energy shift in the room after someone takes their last breath — that is always humbling. I've sat with all kinds of death, from the natural and expected to the incredibly tragic. And through all of it, one truth has held: every life was worthy and important.

I am, quite simply, a moth to a flame when it comes to human truth. It's why I do this work. Ask someone about death or sex and the facades fall away — the armor, the layers, the barriers to real connection. What's left is pure humanity. That's where I want to be.

I do this work because when life gets messy, scary, and uncomfortable — when others look away because it's too much — I will not look away. I will be right there with you.